Okay, I try very hard to respect the wishes of people who don’t want to see spoilers. I tag them meticulously, and I completely understand why people wouldn’t want to see them. That’s why I tag. People deserve to be confident that they’re safe, whether that’s through blacklisting or unfollowing.
However, if you get belligerent towards people who want to see some spoilers and choose not to blacklist, you’re just being an ass. I’ve seen a few people this morning already yelling at people for choosing to reblog spoilers at all, and generally shaming people who like to see these little bits of information. It’s not that we don’t want to be surprised at all, it’s just that when the cast or crew give us anything it just adds to the excitement for some of us. In my experience in other fandoms, even most of the people who like spoilers have a limit, and will start blacklisting after a point. We’re not insane, we know where the fun stops for us.
It’s within your rights to request that people tag their spoilers, and most bloggers are really kind about that and will tag if asked. If they don’t want to do that, they should be understanding if you unfollow. But please don’t be an ass.